Satu keputusan yang agak major dalam hidup aku..
Aku putuskan nak jadi surirumah sepenuh masa buat sementara waktu..
Sekarang, menghitung hari sebelum memulakan hidup baru.
Mungkin tiada lagi kebebasan dalam berbelanja..
Tapi hati dah tak sabar nak duduk rumah bersama Syahmi..
nak start modul homeschool untuk dia..
Bagi aku, menjadi surirumah sepenuh masa ni mmg cita-cita dari dulu..
Aku nak duduk rumah, jaga rumah, jaga anak..
Pagi, nak masak untuk suami ngan anak2..
Petang bila suami balik, semua da tersedia..
Rumah pon sentiasa kemas..
Beberapa bulan pertama mungkin adalah masa yang paling sukar.
Sebab aku masih ada tanggungan kereta, insurans aku, insurans ibu, insurans syahmi..
Tapi, insyaAllah, aku bercadang nak bukak bisnes sendiri..
Bisnes ape, tak dipastikan lagi..
Tapi insyaAllah..di mana ada kemahuan, di situ ada jalan..
Rugi tak bila tak jadi engineer?
Mungkin org luar akan kata, rugi belajar tinggi2, last2 jadi surirumah..
Tapi bagi aku, dapat didik anak kat rumah lagi bermakna..
Ini pengorbanan yang paling besar rasanya..
Dan aku berterima kasih kat suami sebab sentiasa menyokong.
Dia pon dah tak sanggup kot asek tgk aku tensen je memanjang.
Aku just mengharap ada rezeki laen untuk keluarga kami.
Rezeki di bumi Allah ni besar.
Bukan setakat jadi engineer je..
Mana lah tau bila kerja sendiri, pulangannya lagi besar.
Bagi yang masih nak decide untuk berhenti kerja atau tak,
ikotlah naluri..kata hati..
Percaya dan yakin dengan rezeki Allah..
Tak perlu jadi kaya..
Sebab duit takkan pernah cukup..
Asalkan satu keluarga hidup bahagia pon da ok..
InsyaAllah..Semoga segala usaha dipermudahkan...
Tuesday, 15 April 2014
Friday, 28 March 2014
Qaseh Gold
Okay....
Sekarang aku da jadi pengedar Qaseh Gold..
Mula-mula ingat nak try untuk diri sendiri memandangkan da mengandung ni..
Tapi, alang2, masuk jela ahli..
Bole jadi pengedar dan share kebaikan minuman Qaseh nih..
Qaseh ada beberapa produk..
1) Qaseh Kekanda - RM 71.90
2) Qaseh Adinda - RM71.90
3) Qaseh Junior - RM 60.00
4) Mineral Sole - RM 52.00
5) Garam Masakan - RM 15.90
Apa sebenarnya Qaseh Gold Adinda & Kekanda ni?
Qaseh ni sebenarnya minuman kesihatan, berasaskan ramuan yang diiktiraf sebagai makanan sunnah seperti kurma, madu, habbatus sauda, buah tiin, zaitun, delima dan air zamzam..
Di samping itu, ia juga diperkaya dengan kehebatan gam arab sebagai prebiotik semulajadi dan herba tradisi seperti za'faran, Ginkgo dan sirih..
Tambahan pula, ia ditambah dengan herba khusus Tribulus, Guarana dan Ashwaganda (Qaseh Kekanda) serta Passiflora,pegaga dan manjakani.(Qaseh Adinda).
Golongan yang sesuai mengambil product Qaseh Adinda/Kekanda:-
1) Suami / ayah
2) Ister / Ibu
3) Pekerja yang menggunakan tenaga fizikal
4) Pekerja yang banyak menggunakan tenaga minda / berfikir
5) Pasangan yang akan mendirikan rumahtangga
6) Pasangan yang berusaha untuk mendapatkan zuriat
7) Wanita mengandung, melahirkan & munyusukan anak
8) Pelajar universiti/Kolej.
Qaseh Adinda / Kekanda dapat membantu mengatasi masalah:-
1) keletihan / kelesuan
2) Batuk / sakit tekak
3) Selsema
4) asthma
5) Gastrik
6) Gout
7) Migrain
8) Buasir
9) resdung
10) Sembelit
11) Tekanan darah tinggi
12) Masalah wanita seperti keputihan dan haid tidak teratur
13) Kurang keinginan seksual
14) Anemia
15) Kebas-kebas ringan
16) susah tidur
17) sakit sendi
18) Sakit tumit
19) Stress.
Kebaikan Qaseh Adinda/ Kekanda
1. Membekalkan tenaga
2. Awet Muda
3. Membantu usaha mendapatkan zuriat
4. Menguatkan sistem immune
5. Melancarkan darah
6. Membanyakkan susu ibu
7. Menstabilkan hormon
8. Menstabilkan mood
9. Mencerdaskan minda
10.Meningkatkan libido & keintiman suami isteri
11. Melawaskan pembuangan
12. Mempercepatkan proses penyembuhan
13. Mengawal tekanan darah
14. Menaikkan seri wajah.
Sekarang aku da jadi pengedar Qaseh Gold..
Mula-mula ingat nak try untuk diri sendiri memandangkan da mengandung ni..
Tapi, alang2, masuk jela ahli..
Bole jadi pengedar dan share kebaikan minuman Qaseh nih..
Qaseh ada beberapa produk..
1) Qaseh Kekanda - RM 71.90
2) Qaseh Adinda - RM71.90
3) Qaseh Junior - RM 60.00
4) Mineral Sole - RM 52.00
5) Garam Masakan - RM 15.90
Apa sebenarnya Qaseh Gold Adinda & Kekanda ni?
Qaseh ni sebenarnya minuman kesihatan, berasaskan ramuan yang diiktiraf sebagai makanan sunnah seperti kurma, madu, habbatus sauda, buah tiin, zaitun, delima dan air zamzam..
Di samping itu, ia juga diperkaya dengan kehebatan gam arab sebagai prebiotik semulajadi dan herba tradisi seperti za'faran, Ginkgo dan sirih..
Tambahan pula, ia ditambah dengan herba khusus Tribulus, Guarana dan Ashwaganda (Qaseh Kekanda) serta Passiflora,pegaga dan manjakani.(Qaseh Adinda).
Golongan yang sesuai mengambil product Qaseh Adinda/Kekanda:-
1) Suami / ayah
2) Ister / Ibu
3) Pekerja yang menggunakan tenaga fizikal
4) Pekerja yang banyak menggunakan tenaga minda / berfikir
5) Pasangan yang akan mendirikan rumahtangga
6) Pasangan yang berusaha untuk mendapatkan zuriat
7) Wanita mengandung, melahirkan & munyusukan anak
8) Pelajar universiti/Kolej.
Qaseh Adinda / Kekanda dapat membantu mengatasi masalah:-
1) keletihan / kelesuan
2) Batuk / sakit tekak
3) Selsema
4) asthma
5) Gastrik
6) Gout
7) Migrain
8) Buasir
9) resdung
10) Sembelit
11) Tekanan darah tinggi
12) Masalah wanita seperti keputihan dan haid tidak teratur
13) Kurang keinginan seksual
14) Anemia
15) Kebas-kebas ringan
16) susah tidur
17) sakit sendi
18) Sakit tumit
19) Stress.
Kebaikan Qaseh Adinda/ Kekanda
1. Membekalkan tenaga
2. Awet Muda
3. Membantu usaha mendapatkan zuriat
4. Menguatkan sistem immune
5. Melancarkan darah
6. Membanyakkan susu ibu
7. Menstabilkan hormon
8. Menstabilkan mood
9. Mencerdaskan minda
10.Meningkatkan libido & keintiman suami isteri
11. Melawaskan pembuangan
12. Mempercepatkan proses penyembuhan
13. Mengawal tekanan darah
14. Menaikkan seri wajah.
Kalau berminat nak try, or nak jadi ahli/dropship agent, bole contact :-
Hazwani - 012-9221876 =)
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Boleh hubungi saya untuk belian produk dan peluang perniagaan, sama ada dropship, sekadar mencuba atau serius berniaga. Saya akan membimbing anda. Pelbagai kelas juga disediakan oleh HQ.
InsyaAllah bermanfaat
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Tuesday, 18 March 2014
ehem!.. I'm Pregnant!
Yeahhhhh!!
Setelah berbulan mencuba, akhirnya dapat jugak rezeki yang tidak ternilai nih..
dan kebetulan Achik pon pregnant.. Kalau Nisa pon pregnant, syok nye...ramaila baby akhir tahun nih..
Apa-apa pon, aku harap, kandungan selamat.. Tak sabar nak tunggu kelahiran dia.. =)
Sekarang baru 6minggu setengah.. EDD =8 November 2014 nih..=)
Pregnancy kali ni pon start dengan berat yang sama.. 63.3 kg..huhu..
harap badan kekal aktif macam dulu. Cuma aku kurangkan travel sebab nak elakkan bleeding lagi.
Setelah berbulan mencuba, akhirnya dapat jugak rezeki yang tidak ternilai nih..
dan kebetulan Achik pon pregnant.. Kalau Nisa pon pregnant, syok nye...ramaila baby akhir tahun nih..
Apa-apa pon, aku harap, kandungan selamat.. Tak sabar nak tunggu kelahiran dia.. =)
Sekarang baru 6minggu setengah.. EDD =8 November 2014 nih..=)
Pregnancy kali ni pon start dengan berat yang sama.. 63.3 kg..huhu..
harap badan kekal aktif macam dulu. Cuma aku kurangkan travel sebab nak elakkan bleeding lagi.
Hasil keputusan UPT yang ke empat..haha..sbb tak percaya, terpaksa cek byk kali.
Main bersama Naufal yang sama-sama akan jadi abang.. Tapi Syahmi asek kena buli je..hehe..
Syahmi bersama cat kesayangan.. Kena didik dia supaya sentiasa sayang menyayang.
Syahmi pow nenek nak beli Poby.. Nenek nak belanja basikal, dapat Poby plak.
Happy betol dapat Poby.. nak bawak merata-rata Poby dia uh.. Harap-harap abg Syahmi boleh jaga adik elok-elok nanti.. Ibu sayang Syahmi.. muahhhh.
Wednesday, 19 February 2014
Anak cirit birit / Rotavirus / Stomach Flu
Khamis lepas, Syahmi tiba-tiba dapat rotavirus. Dia start muntah, then malam tu cirit birit / diarrhea.
3kali kitorang tukar cadar sbb muntah dan diarrhea yang banyak sangat. Dia pon lesu. Dia makan/minum apa saje, sure keluar balik.
Dah bagi probiotic / olivenol / garlic, tapi semua keluar balik tak sampai seminit. Tempoh cirit birit pon lama. Khamis- Selasa (6 hari).
Aku bawak gi jumpa doc. Doc kata kena viral fever. sebab pagi Jumaat tu dia da start demam (38degC). Doc bagi smecta+enerzal.
Sabtu, Ahad mmg tak keluar mana-mana. sebab dia lesu je.. boleh nampak tulang rangka dengan tulang belakang dia..kesian sangat tgk dia..
kadang-kadang, dia kembung..Nasib baik kitorang dpt keluarkan angin dia.. baru dia lega nak tidur.
Doctor kata, takde ubat untuk baby. Just kena pastikan dia minum air secukupnya.
Mula-mula, ingatkan keracunan makanan. Sebab Syahmi still suka kutip-kutip masuk mulut.. takut termakan inedible food ke..Tapi doctor kata bukan.. Bila tgk sign, macam kena rotavirus je.. Aduii..
So, kalau anak korang terkena rotavirus / anak cirit birit, macam mana nak buat? Meh I story :-
Tanda-Tanda Rotavirus
1)Muntah
2)Cirit Birit (watery diarrhea -kaler hijau)
3)Demam
4)Lesu
Duration
1) Incubation = 1-2 days
2) Diarrhea = 2-8 days
Cara-Cara Merawat
1) Bagi air secukupnya. Elakkan dairy product, fruit juices, and high sugar drinks.
2) Bone broth soup - Sup ayam/tulang/daging- reneh dalam sejam dua bersama halia, dan garlic.
3) Air kelapa - yang ni berkesan untuk Syahmi. Tapi dia minum setengah gelas je. Aku minum 3biji kelapa dalam masa sehari semalam. Aku redha je minum banyak-banyak dengan harapan electrolytes dlm air kelapa akan mengalir dalam susu untuk Syahmi. Alhamdullillah, berkesan.
4) Probiotic - Untuk menstabilkan bacteria dalam perut
Jumpa doktor / bawak ke ER jika:-
1) Anak dehydrated
2) Demam terlampau tinggi (38.5 degC ke atas)
3) Berak berdarah
4) Cirit Birit lebih 24 jam
Tanda- Tanda dehidrasi
1) Anak tidak kencing. (pampers kering untuk 3-4jam)
2) kencing kuning dan berbau
3) Lesu tidak bermaya
4) Kulit anak kering dan tidak anjal seperti biasa
5) Mulut dan lidah kering
6) Menangis tanpa air mata
7) Tidak berpeluh
Rotavirus adalah penyakit yang normal. Ada kajian yang dibuat menyatakan bayi akan mendapat rotavirus sekali sebelum umur 5tahun. bagi aku, tak perlu ambil rotavirus vaksin. Lagipon ada DNA babi dalam Rotarix tu. Just, kena pandai jaga time anak rotavirus. Pastikan mengambil air secukupnya. Kalau tak, bawak pergi hospital untuk IV drip.
Dehydration pada bayi adalah merbahaya. So, ibubapa kena aware dan memerhatikan anak-anak semasa diarrhea.
Rotavirus juga berjangkit. So, kebersihan adalah faktor utama supaya tidak mengjangkiti orang laen.
3kali kitorang tukar cadar sbb muntah dan diarrhea yang banyak sangat. Dia pon lesu. Dia makan/minum apa saje, sure keluar balik.
Dah bagi probiotic / olivenol / garlic, tapi semua keluar balik tak sampai seminit. Tempoh cirit birit pon lama. Khamis- Selasa (6 hari).
Aku bawak gi jumpa doc. Doc kata kena viral fever. sebab pagi Jumaat tu dia da start demam (38degC). Doc bagi smecta+enerzal.
Sabtu, Ahad mmg tak keluar mana-mana. sebab dia lesu je.. boleh nampak tulang rangka dengan tulang belakang dia..kesian sangat tgk dia..
kadang-kadang, dia kembung..Nasib baik kitorang dpt keluarkan angin dia.. baru dia lega nak tidur.
Doctor kata, takde ubat untuk baby. Just kena pastikan dia minum air secukupnya.
Mula-mula, ingatkan keracunan makanan. Sebab Syahmi still suka kutip-kutip masuk mulut.. takut termakan inedible food ke..Tapi doctor kata bukan.. Bila tgk sign, macam kena rotavirus je.. Aduii..
So, kalau anak korang terkena rotavirus / anak cirit birit, macam mana nak buat? Meh I story :-
Tanda-Tanda Rotavirus
1)Muntah
2)Cirit Birit (watery diarrhea -kaler hijau)
3)Demam
4)Lesu
Duration
1) Incubation = 1-2 days
2) Diarrhea = 2-8 days
Cara-Cara Merawat
1) Bagi air secukupnya. Elakkan dairy product, fruit juices, and high sugar drinks.
2) Bone broth soup - Sup ayam/tulang/daging- reneh dalam sejam dua bersama halia, dan garlic.
3) Air kelapa - yang ni berkesan untuk Syahmi. Tapi dia minum setengah gelas je. Aku minum 3biji kelapa dalam masa sehari semalam. Aku redha je minum banyak-banyak dengan harapan electrolytes dlm air kelapa akan mengalir dalam susu untuk Syahmi. Alhamdullillah, berkesan.
4) Probiotic - Untuk menstabilkan bacteria dalam perut
Jumpa doktor / bawak ke ER jika:-
1) Anak dehydrated
2) Demam terlampau tinggi (38.5 degC ke atas)
3) Berak berdarah
4) Cirit Birit lebih 24 jam
Tanda- Tanda dehidrasi
1) Anak tidak kencing. (pampers kering untuk 3-4jam)
2) kencing kuning dan berbau
3) Lesu tidak bermaya
4) Kulit anak kering dan tidak anjal seperti biasa
5) Mulut dan lidah kering
6) Menangis tanpa air mata
7) Tidak berpeluh
Rotavirus adalah penyakit yang normal. Ada kajian yang dibuat menyatakan bayi akan mendapat rotavirus sekali sebelum umur 5tahun. bagi aku, tak perlu ambil rotavirus vaksin. Lagipon ada DNA babi dalam Rotarix tu. Just, kena pandai jaga time anak rotavirus. Pastikan mengambil air secukupnya. Kalau tak, bawak pergi hospital untuk IV drip.
Dehydration pada bayi adalah merbahaya. So, ibubapa kena aware dan memerhatikan anak-anak semasa diarrhea.
Rotavirus juga berjangkit. So, kebersihan adalah faktor utama supaya tidak mengjangkiti orang laen.
Tidur sepanjang masa. Badan pon makin kurus
Seluar dan baju kena tukar lebih 10 kali sehari. takde sempat nak matching
Balik rumah, terus tidur. tak senyum pon
Bye - bye diarrhea.. last day di Klinik maen-maen dekat bilik doctor.
QASEH GOLD MAKANAN SUNNAH UNTUK SEISI KELUARGA
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Boleh hubungi saya untuk belian produk dan peluang perniagaan, sama ada dropship, sekadar mencuba atau serius berniaga. Saya akan membimbing anda. Pelbagai kelas juga disediakan oleh HQ.
InsyaAllah bermanfaat
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Wednesday, 5 February 2014
Syahmi Fawwaz, 16months - eczema dan ASTHMA..
Sedaya upaya dari dulu aku berdoa agar Syahmi tak kena asthma.. Tapi rupanya, kena jugak..betollah orang kata asthma dan eczema ni penyakit adik beradik..saling berkait.
Syahmi kena asthma attack on 12th January 2014. Aku di Kerteh, Anan di Singapore. Terus aku cancel flight, booked flight baru and balik terus sbb Syahmi admitted kat ward. Susah bernafas, taknak minum, taknak makan..
Punca asthma :
First Attack , Aku suspect berpunca dari air suam yang berklorin dengan gabungan habuk2. Sebab a day before tu, aku bawak Syahmi ke rumah sepupu.. And mmg dia tiba-tiba selsema and batuk non stop kat situ.. sangat pelik kenapa.. balik tuh terus bg madu and olivenol. Okay la sikit.. waktu dia hantar aku ke KLIA pon dia macam OK je. esoknya terus asthma attack..admitted 4hari, 4x sehari amek neb.
Second attack, a week after that, aku bawak gi rumah sepupu yang laen jugak.. Kat sana, terkena asap orang bakar kambing agaknya.. terus esoknya asthma balik..amek neb 3kali sehari.
Third attack, 31 january.. Dia makan kismis xbasuh..malam tuh terus batuk.. wheezing sound, persistant cough..esoknya pon amek neb 2x.
Rawatan Asthma :
Masuk hospital, Doctor prescribe neb, antibiotik, ubat cair kahak, hydrocort. at first aku refuse bagi antibiotic and hydrocort.. Sbb time nak bagi uh, wheezing sound da takde.. batuk pon da takde.. tapi,doctor tak datang check pon..just prescribe through phone. Bila nurse nak bagi, aku refuse. aku nak jumpa doctor. Esoknya, doctor datang, bagi ceramah tentang pengalaman 35tahun dia as paeditrician mengatakan budak takkan allergy dengan antibiotics and hydrocort uh just small amount of steroid. Aku bertegas taknak jugak. so, dia mengalah dengan hydrocort, tp still bg antibiotic. Just aku topup ngan probiotic..
Masuk je antibiotic, Syahmi dapat rashes yang teruk kat kaki.. garu sampai berdarah dekat tag nama dia..even pergelangan tangan pon kena rashes. nurse nak masukkan antibiotic kat tgn pon tak dapat sebab xleh masuk pon dlm tgn dia..tataulaa darah beku ke hape..tp nurse cucuk je, abes keluar antibiotic dengan darah kat tangan..terus aku suh nurse bukak..
So, dia bagi oral antibiotic je.Bila nak discharge, baru doctor uh dok cakap baek2 "owh, eczema dia teruk eh?abes alahan"..
dalam hati aku, rasa nak bash je..aku berpuluh kali dok cakap eczema syahmi teruk..just time admitted uh, kulit dia tgh ok..mmg licin je..pipi, kaki, tangan. masuk hospital, terus naek balik..
Second attack, bagi salbutamol and neb.. rashes makin teruk..so, aku stop salbutamol.. aku up dosage olivenol and madu..pastu bagi apricot.. rashes terus stop..just kena heal balik jela which will takes months to achieve.
Third attack, aku just bagi neb and madu.. tak bagi kena aircond, tak bagi dia maen air, bagi mkn garlic pill, olivenol, and vit c (sodium ascorbate).. baru ok..
So, lepas ni, aku akan cuba untuk elak dari trigger factor : buah-buahan kering kena basuh dulu.rendam dalam air suam sekejap untuk hilangkan so called food grade sulphur, tak boleh habuk,debu, air minum kena bersih.
Bagi aku, treatment yang berkesan- sodium ascorbate (untuk stop selsema), madu (untuk batuk), garlic pill (cairkan kahak).. Kalau teruk baru amek neb.
Just berdoa, Syahmi tak kena Asthma attack lagi..Amin..
Syahmi kena asthma attack on 12th January 2014. Aku di Kerteh, Anan di Singapore. Terus aku cancel flight, booked flight baru and balik terus sbb Syahmi admitted kat ward. Susah bernafas, taknak minum, taknak makan..
Punca asthma :
First Attack , Aku suspect berpunca dari air suam yang berklorin dengan gabungan habuk2. Sebab a day before tu, aku bawak Syahmi ke rumah sepupu.. And mmg dia tiba-tiba selsema and batuk non stop kat situ.. sangat pelik kenapa.. balik tuh terus bg madu and olivenol. Okay la sikit.. waktu dia hantar aku ke KLIA pon dia macam OK je. esoknya terus asthma attack..admitted 4hari, 4x sehari amek neb.
Second attack, a week after that, aku bawak gi rumah sepupu yang laen jugak.. Kat sana, terkena asap orang bakar kambing agaknya.. terus esoknya asthma balik..amek neb 3kali sehari.
Third attack, 31 january.. Dia makan kismis xbasuh..malam tuh terus batuk.. wheezing sound, persistant cough..esoknya pon amek neb 2x.
Rawatan Asthma :
Masuk hospital, Doctor prescribe neb, antibiotik, ubat cair kahak, hydrocort. at first aku refuse bagi antibiotic and hydrocort.. Sbb time nak bagi uh, wheezing sound da takde.. batuk pon da takde.. tapi,doctor tak datang check pon..just prescribe through phone. Bila nurse nak bagi, aku refuse. aku nak jumpa doctor. Esoknya, doctor datang, bagi ceramah tentang pengalaman 35tahun dia as paeditrician mengatakan budak takkan allergy dengan antibiotics and hydrocort uh just small amount of steroid. Aku bertegas taknak jugak. so, dia mengalah dengan hydrocort, tp still bg antibiotic. Just aku topup ngan probiotic..
Masuk je antibiotic, Syahmi dapat rashes yang teruk kat kaki.. garu sampai berdarah dekat tag nama dia..even pergelangan tangan pon kena rashes. nurse nak masukkan antibiotic kat tgn pon tak dapat sebab xleh masuk pon dlm tgn dia..tataulaa darah beku ke hape..tp nurse cucuk je, abes keluar antibiotic dengan darah kat tangan..terus aku suh nurse bukak..
So, dia bagi oral antibiotic je.Bila nak discharge, baru doctor uh dok cakap baek2 "owh, eczema dia teruk eh?abes alahan"..
dalam hati aku, rasa nak bash je..aku berpuluh kali dok cakap eczema syahmi teruk..just time admitted uh, kulit dia tgh ok..mmg licin je..pipi, kaki, tangan. masuk hospital, terus naek balik..
Second attack, bagi salbutamol and neb.. rashes makin teruk..so, aku stop salbutamol.. aku up dosage olivenol and madu..pastu bagi apricot.. rashes terus stop..just kena heal balik jela which will takes months to achieve.
Third attack, aku just bagi neb and madu.. tak bagi kena aircond, tak bagi dia maen air, bagi mkn garlic pill, olivenol, and vit c (sodium ascorbate).. baru ok..
So, lepas ni, aku akan cuba untuk elak dari trigger factor : buah-buahan kering kena basuh dulu.rendam dalam air suam sekejap untuk hilangkan so called food grade sulphur, tak boleh habuk,debu, air minum kena bersih.
Bagi aku, treatment yang berkesan- sodium ascorbate (untuk stop selsema), madu (untuk batuk), garlic pill (cairkan kahak).. Kalau teruk baru amek neb.
Just berdoa, Syahmi tak kena Asthma attack lagi..Amin..
Neb sampai tertidur .Penat da meraung melawan neb
pergi maen di wad kanak-kanak. excited nak pakai snow gloves ayahngah bagi
Syahmi, seluar pendek dan gloves
Berjalan-jalan di wad sambil tolak trolley nurse
Syahmi belajar pakai kasut sendiri
antara syringe yang berjaya dikumpul
Baby cot nih jadi tempat dia maen je..maen cak cak
sebelum amek nebulizer, punyalaa ceria maen gelungsur.
Tuesday, 7 January 2014
Eczema?..Anak tak jalan lagi?
Syahmi tak boleh jalan sendiri lagi..
MInggu depan da masuk 1 tahun 4bulan..
Perasaan aku?..
Aku tak risau...
Tapi aku rasa jengkel*annoyed*..
Sebab ramailah yang dok komen..
"Lambatnya dia berjalan"..
"Nih malas nih.."
"anak aku/cucu dia/anak dia, umur 3bulan 7 bulan da berjalan" -saje over.
"Doktor tak cakap apa-apa ke dia tak berjalan lagi?"
"nih da lambat ni..selalunya 8 bulan org da berjalan, berdiri"
dan macam-macam lagi...
Macam-macam komen..
Ini pendapat aku....
Korang tahu 8 bulan, Syahmi buat ape?
Dia tak sempat pon nak merangkak, mengengsot semua tu..apatah lagi berjalan...
Kenapa???
Sebab tangan kaki dia sibuk menggaru!!..
kaki tangan berdarah akibat menggaru..
Please lah..
Stop comparing anak-anak yang bertuah dapat berjalan awal dengan anak aku yang diberi sedikit ujian...
Sila terima kenyataan pembesaran setiap budak tak sama...
Tempoh untuk budak berjalan, adalah sampai 18 bulan..
anak korang dapat jalan awal, ucap je syukur..
Anak korang tak kena eczema, ucap je syukur..
Jangan nak hina or perkotak katikkan anak aku...
Tak payah nak compare Syahmi dengan budak laen..
Aku bukan buta..
Aku boleh tengok bila budak-budak laen berjalan..
Ramai je kawan-kawan aku yang anak-anak derang da boleh jalan..tapi, xdelah sibuk nak compare-compare...
Kalau rasa nak komen sangat, just ckp "nanti-nanti dia berjalan lah tu..itu normal..
Korang pon pernah jadi ibu kan?ada yang jadi nenek da pon..
Xkan lah tatau perasaan seorang ibu bila asek nak compare-compare..
Sampai kadang-kadang aku malas nak gi apa-apa majlis..
Yang tegur pipi merah satu hal...
itu ruam susu tuh.. kena sapu shaklee, amway, arang, gincu...
Please....
Lebih baik korang diam dari berkata-kata...
Tiba- tiba aku ter emo..
uhhh..
Rutin dia sewaktu kecik, memang menggaru..
Pipi berdarah, kepala berdarah, tgn berdarah, lutut berdarah..itu biasa..
Aku terima seadanya..
Aku just boleh berdoa semoga dia cepat sembuh..
Perjalanan yang masih jauh..
Dan, sila hormati keputusan aku bila aku tak bagi anak aku certain makanan..
jangan sesedap mulut nak sumbat anak aku macam-macam..
Sebab yang menanggung, bukan korang...
garu..Garu..garu..
garu sampai tertidur..
garu sambil menangis..
Redakan gatal dengan bedak sejuk
Garu sampai kemerahan
garu sampai luka
Menangis bila tak tahan
Menangis bila terlampau pedih..
*berat mata memandang, berat lagi bahu memikul..harap paham..*
Sape yang cakap eczema adalah masalah kecik berbanding campak, sila campakkan diri korang masuk sungai gombak...
Korang tak rasa, memang korang bole cakap...
Dan aku da stopkan vaksinasi anak aku..last vax 5bulan..
Aku bukan anti vax, anti doctor or pape yang korang nak label..
tapi, setiap kali lepas vax, eczema makin naek..
So, sebagai org yang waras, patut ke aku teruskan?
So, kalau nak kecam aku sebagai ibu yang tak bertanggungjawab sebab tak cucuk MMR and so on, boleh pergi ke lombong..
jangan riak sangat dengan vaksin..
Kaji dulu apa yang ada dlm uh..
Aku da kaji...
Dan aku da buat keputusan..sila hormati..
Kalau tanak hormati..sila pergi hormati.
Steroid-free eczema kid
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Wednesday, 18 December 2013
Repost : 7 Things Your Muslim Wife Won’t Tell You
original Post : ---> islamiclearningmaterials
Well, if the last article didn’t upset you, perhaps this one will. Actually, I don’t want to upset you. But I do want you to think about things that may not normally cross your mind.
Most men have a hard time understanding women. Even a woman they’ve been married to for years.
One minute she’s perfectly fine. The next, she’s crying like a baby.
She complains about something but when we offer advice on how to fix it, she still isn’t satisfied.
After several years of marriage (and counselling) I’ve learned to not worry so much about what my wife says. Instead, I should worry about what she doesn’t say.
With this information in mind, I’ve put together a quick list of things Muslim men should be aware of when it comes to their wife’s mind.
In this article I explained that men desire respect from their wives, and women desire love from their husbands.
When a wife shows her husband less respect, he in turn shows her less love.
And when a husband shows his wife less love, she in turn shows him less respect.
And the vicious cycle repeats itself.
Stop this prophecy before it becomes self-fulfilling. Show love to your wife.
That’s what she wants. Love her despite her flaws and quirks.
And Inshallah, she’ll respect you despite your flaws and quirks.
Week in and week out.
Not only is she bored but she’s also tired.
She has to care for the kids and run the household and then pamper you.
Just thinking about doing that every day makes me want to crawl under my covers and hide. I can imagine how the average Muslim housewife must feel.
And let’s not forget about working woman. Many Muslim women have to work a full time job as well as hold a house down.
So brothers, I implore you, make your wife feel special. Give her a break.
Take her out sometimes. Surprise her with a surprise meal. Bring her favorite desert home.
Just do something every now and then to break the monotany.
Everybody wants it.
No one wants to feel as if the hard work they do goes unnoticed or even worse, it taken for granted.
Your wife does not have to clean your dirty clothes. And she does not have to cook your meals.
But she does.
And she does that on top of all the other things in her life:
A simple “thank you” is a good start.
Be very careful how you talk about other women around your wife.
I mentioned this in my book “Sex and Islam.” Don’t ever compare your wife to another woman.
Even the Prophet’s (pbuh) wives got jealous. Aisha (RA) even got jealous of Khadijah (RA) who was dead.
Expect, and respect, the same type of jealousy from your wife.
And that’s the problem with a lot of Muslim men these days.
Not only are they not being good leaders, they’re being led by their wives (or mothers, or other women in their lives).
Your wife desires and wants you to be her leader. And what better way to lead her than to be show her how to be a better Muslimah?
But you can’t show her how to become better if you’re not that great either. Therefore, you have to upgrade your Iman. You have to improve yourself and then pass it on to her in a gentle, respectful way.
Yes, there are some people (men and women) whom you can never please. No matter what you do, they’ll always find fault in something. Let’s be reminded of the following hadith:
But very often, you Brother, make it hard for her to hold your tongue.
Perhaps you’re always finding fault with her and she looks for things in your character to get even.
Perhaps you’re not working (or not working hard enough) and she has to work to take up some slack.
Perhaps you’re just not that great of a guy.
Once again, upgrade yourself and give her less reasons to complain and nag.
They get married because they want a happy family life and they believe you’re gonna give it to them.
Outside of her religious duties, that’s the most important thing in a Muslim woman’s life. Raising a happy, stable, Muslim family.
The funny thing is, it’s very easy for you to give that to her.
7 Things Your Muslim Wife Won’t Tell You
What’s Going On Under the Hijab?
Last week I wrote an article entitled “7 Things Your Muslim Husband Won’t Tell You.” I thought I was gonna get a lot of complaints about that one, but so far, everyone seems to enjoy it.Well, if the last article didn’t upset you, perhaps this one will. Actually, I don’t want to upset you. But I do want you to think about things that may not normally cross your mind.
Most men have a hard time understanding women. Even a woman they’ve been married to for years.
One minute she’s perfectly fine. The next, she’s crying like a baby.
She complains about something but when we offer advice on how to fix it, she still isn’t satisfied.
After several years of marriage (and counselling) I’ve learned to not worry so much about what my wife says. Instead, I should worry about what she doesn’t say.
With this information in mind, I’ve put together a quick list of things Muslim men should be aware of when it comes to their wife’s mind.
1. Above All, She Wants Your Love
This harkens back to a post I wrote a couple of months ago called “Love or Respect: Which Do You Prefer?”In this article I explained that men desire respect from their wives, and women desire love from their husbands.
When a wife shows her husband less respect, he in turn shows her less love.
And when a husband shows his wife less love, she in turn shows him less respect.
And the vicious cycle repeats itself.
Stop this prophecy before it becomes self-fulfilling. Show love to your wife.
That’s what she wants. Love her despite her flaws and quirks.
And Inshallah, she’ll respect you despite your flaws and quirks.
2. She’s Bored
It’s the same thing every day.Week in and week out.
Not only is she bored but she’s also tired.
She has to care for the kids and run the household and then pamper you.
Just thinking about doing that every day makes me want to crawl under my covers and hide. I can imagine how the average Muslim housewife must feel.
And let’s not forget about working woman. Many Muslim women have to work a full time job as well as hold a house down.
So brothers, I implore you, make your wife feel special. Give her a break.
Take her out sometimes. Surprise her with a surprise meal. Bring her favorite desert home.
Just do something every now and then to break the monotany.
3. She Wants to Be Complimented
Appreciation.Everybody wants it.
No one wants to feel as if the hard work they do goes unnoticed or even worse, it taken for granted.
Your wife does not have to clean your dirty clothes. And she does not have to cook your meals.
But she does.
And she does that on top of all the other things in her life:
- Working or going to school.
- Caring for the kids.
- Striving to be a better Muslimah.
A simple “thank you” is a good start.
4. She’s Insanely Jealous
There’s a reason most women don’t care for polygamy.Be very careful how you talk about other women around your wife.
I mentioned this in my book “Sex and Islam.” Don’t ever compare your wife to another woman.
- Don’t compare her to some female movie star.
- Don’t compare her to your mother.
- Never, ever compare her to your ex-wife (or other wife!)
Even the Prophet’s (pbuh) wives got jealous. Aisha (RA) even got jealous of Khadijah (RA) who was dead.
Expect, and respect, the same type of jealousy from your wife.
5. She Wants You to Help Her Become A Better Muslimah
If you haven’t seen it yet, I encourage you to watch this video I did a couple of weeks ago for Muslim men. In this video I stress the importance of men taking the role of leader within their families.And that’s the problem with a lot of Muslim men these days.
Not only are they not being good leaders, they’re being led by their wives (or mothers, or other women in their lives).
Your wife desires and wants you to be her leader. And what better way to lead her than to be show her how to be a better Muslimah?
But you can’t show her how to become better if you’re not that great either. Therefore, you have to upgrade your Iman. You have to improve yourself and then pass it on to her in a gentle, respectful way.
6. She Doesn’t Like to Nag, But Sometimes You Make It Hard
It’s a common myth that women like to nag their husbands. That’s not entirely true.Yes, there are some people (men and women) whom you can never please. No matter what you do, they’ll always find fault in something. Let’s be reminded of the following hadith:
Narrated Ibn ‘Abbas: The Prophet said: “I was shown the Hell-fire and that the majority of its dwellers were women who were ungrateful.” It was asked, “Do they disbelieve in Allah?” (or are they ungrateful to Allah?) He replied, “They are ungrateful to their husbands and are ungrateful for the favors and the good (charitable deeds) done to them. If you have always been good (benevolent) to one of them and then she sees something in you (not of her liking), she will say, ‘I have never received any good from you.”So, yes sisters should be careful about denegrating the things your husband does for you.
Sahih Bukhari
But very often, you Brother, make it hard for her to hold your tongue.
Perhaps you’re always finding fault with her and she looks for things in your character to get even.
Perhaps you’re not working (or not working hard enough) and she has to work to take up some slack.
Perhaps you’re just not that great of a guy.
Once again, upgrade yourself and give her less reasons to complain and nag.
7. More Than Anything, She Wants a Stable, Happy Relationship With You
Women don’t get married just because they think it’s gonna be fun.They get married because they want a happy family life and they believe you’re gonna give it to them.
Outside of her religious duties, that’s the most important thing in a Muslim woman’s life. Raising a happy, stable, Muslim family.
The funny thing is, it’s very easy for you to give that to her.
- Stop acting like a jerk. Be a good husband to her. Be kind. Show her you love her.
- Don’t threaten her with divorce or taking a second wife. Yes, you have the right to do both. But using them as threats is inappropriate and detrimental to your marriage.
- Trust in Allah, watch out for the tricks of Shaytan, and be patient with her. There’s nothing Shaytan would love more than to destroy your marriage.
Repost : 7 Things Your Muslim Husband Won’t Tell You
original post :--->islamiclearningmaterials
7 Things Your Muslim Husband Won’t Tell You
What’s Going Through Your Muslim Husband’s Mind?
Ever wish you could read your husband’s mind? Western culture encourages husbands and wives to talk to each other and discuss things.
However, in many Muslim cultures, men are raised to be stoic and tight-lipped. Muslim husbands are very often (not always) reluctant to talk about certain things with their wives.
Part of the problem is also that sometimes it is hard to actually formulate our thoughts into the right words.
The only thing more difficult than translating thoughts to words is translating feelings to words.
So, a lot of Muslim men and women go through their marriages with very little communication and never really knowing what the other person is thinking.
This quick list is for the Muslim sisters in my audience. This list will give you good idea of some of the things your husband thinks about, but just doesn’t know how, or want, to tell you.
In this article, I explained that women want to know their husbands love them, and men want to know their wives respect them.
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It’s important that Muslim women understand the value of respect for men, especially Muslim men. In Islam, men are taught from a young age that they are supposed to be the bread-winners and caretakers of their families.
You can imagine how frustrating it would be for a man, who tries his best to care for his family, to be married to a woman who doesn’t respect him. She may declare that she loves him, but without her respect, he will quickly fall out of love with her.
This idea is put forward in the Quran where Allah says:
There’s nothing that will ruin a marriage quicker than the idea that your spouse is not loyal. The idea, that he or she is not going to stick by you.
I’m not talking about infidelity. This is what usually comes to mind when people talk about loyalty in a marriage.
What I’m talking about is knowing that the person whom you’ve chosen to spend the rest of your life with is going to be there for you when you really need them.
Most men won’t admit it, but we do need women. And we do need your support.
And it’s very troubling to be married to a woman who may not be around when the going gets tough.
If you are constantly threatening divorce or separation or Khula (Islamic divorce initiated by the wife), you can expect your marriage to fizzle out very quickly.
Your husband needs to know that you’re going to be by his side if:
If you’re loyal to your husband, than rest assured he’ll be loyal to you.
Some women might think men are narrow-minded brutes for this, but it’s the truth.
Men desire sex. Men really desire sex.
So when you give him the following excuses:
And do this often enough, he’s going to start resenting you. And that resentment will build up and may lead to him being unnecessarily mean to you or losing some love.
Please keep the following hadith in mind:
All men think about other women.
It doesn’t mean he’s going to cheat on you.
It doesn’t mean he’s thinking about taking a second wife.
It doesn’t mean he’s fantasizing about another woman.
It just means that all (straight) men do, at some point in their lives, consider having another woman (i.e. wife).
You’re better off coming to terms with this and accepting it than having false, purile notions about men.
The best way to combat these thoughts are to apply the advice given in the first three secrets:
But it will raise your value in his mind relative to other woman and he’ll be all the more reluctant to look for those three things (respect, loyalty, and sex) elsewhere.
Why do you think men are willing to leave their jobs and risk starting a business?
Why do you think men like buying women gifts?
Because deep down, we really just want to make you happy.
Sometimes we screw it up and forget our anniversary. But we really would prefer to remember because we know it would make you happy.
So when your husband buys you a gift, accept it, rejoice over it, thank him profusely, and use it as often as possible.
If he buys you some jewelry, wear it.
If he buys you a new smartphone, use it.
If he buys you a car, drive it.
And don’t be so quick to nag him about the things he doesn’t do right. Because then he’ll start feeling that you don’t respect (there’s that word again) the things he does do for you.
Perhaps your husband isn’t a Muslim scholar. Perhaps he’s not the best Muslim in the world.
You can nudge him to make him better. But you can’t force him.
Do little things to get him to improve his Islam.
But if you do this right, you’ll be getting a double reward:
The reward that comes with living with a righteous husband. And the reward in the next life for encouraging your husband to the truth.
Men are just not that good at showing emotion (unless we’re talking sports or politics).
We don’t tell our wives “I love you” often enough.
We’re not perfect. And constantly comparing us to Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) ain’t helping.
Of course, we are supposed to emulate him (pbuh) as much as we can. And for most of us, we are doing the best we can.
But we just can’t treat you the same way he (pbuh) treated his wives. Similarly, it’s unfair for men to expect their wives to behave like Aisha (RA) and his other wives (RA) did.
Just because your husband doesn’t treat you in the way (you think) the Prophet (pbuh) treated his wives, doesn’t mean your husband doesn’t love you.
It just means he’s human.
It is very important that you understand this.
Now move from in front of the television and go make me a sandwich.
JUST KIDDING!
However, in many Muslim cultures, men are raised to be stoic and tight-lipped. Muslim husbands are very often (not always) reluctant to talk about certain things with their wives.
Part of the problem is also that sometimes it is hard to actually formulate our thoughts into the right words.
The only thing more difficult than translating thoughts to words is translating feelings to words.
So, a lot of Muslim men and women go through their marriages with very little communication and never really knowing what the other person is thinking.
This quick list is for the Muslim sisters in my audience. This list will give you good idea of some of the things your husband thinks about, but just doesn’t know how, or want, to tell you.
1. Above All, He Desires Your Respect
I spoke about this in my article “Love or Respect: Which Do You Prefer?”.In this article, I explained that women want to know their husbands love them, and men want to know their wives respect them.
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It’s important that Muslim women understand the value of respect for men, especially Muslim men. In Islam, men are taught from a young age that they are supposed to be the bread-winners and caretakers of their families.
You can imagine how frustrating it would be for a man, who tries his best to care for his family, to be married to a woman who doesn’t respect him. She may declare that she loves him, but without her respect, he will quickly fall out of love with her.
This idea is put forward in the Quran where Allah says:
Men are in charge of women by what Allah has given one over the other and what they spend from their wealth. So righteous women are devoutly obedient, guarding in [the husband's] absence what Allah would have them guard.If you fear there is a problem in your marriage sisters, I would suggest you start here.
Chapter 4, Verse 34
2. He Desires Your Loyalty
This goes hand in hand with respect.There’s nothing that will ruin a marriage quicker than the idea that your spouse is not loyal. The idea, that he or she is not going to stick by you.
I’m not talking about infidelity. This is what usually comes to mind when people talk about loyalty in a marriage.
What I’m talking about is knowing that the person whom you’ve chosen to spend the rest of your life with is going to be there for you when you really need them.
Most men won’t admit it, but we do need women. And we do need your support.
And it’s very troubling to be married to a woman who may not be around when the going gets tough.
If you are constantly threatening divorce or separation or Khula (Islamic divorce initiated by the wife), you can expect your marriage to fizzle out very quickly.
Your husband needs to know that you’re going to be by his side if:
- He loses his job and the money gets tight.
- He tries to do something (like start a business or go back to school) but fails at it.
- His reputation is tarnished or his honor is attacked.
If you’re loyal to your husband, than rest assured he’ll be loyal to you.
3. He Wants To Have Sex More Often
Let’s get this right out into the open.Some women might think men are narrow-minded brutes for this, but it’s the truth.
Men desire sex. Men really desire sex.
So when you give him the following excuses:
- “I’ve got a headache.”
- “I’m not feeling good.”
- “Can’t it wait till the weekend? I’m really not in the mood.”
And do this often enough, he’s going to start resenting you. And that resentment will build up and may lead to him being unnecessarily mean to you or losing some love.
Please keep the following hadith in mind:
When a man calls his wife to his bed, and she does not respond and he (the husband) spends the night angry with her, the angels curse her until morning.Something to think about.
Bukhari and Muslim.
4. He Thinks About Other Women
Okay, first of all, calm down. Don’t unsubscribe from my mailing list just yet. Let me explain this.All men think about other women.
It doesn’t mean he’s going to cheat on you.
It doesn’t mean he’s thinking about taking a second wife.
It doesn’t mean he’s fantasizing about another woman.
It just means that all (straight) men do, at some point in their lives, consider having another woman (i.e. wife).
You’re better off coming to terms with this and accepting it than having false, purile notions about men.
The best way to combat these thoughts are to apply the advice given in the first three secrets:
- Respect him.
- Be loyal to him.
- Give him physical love when he wants it.
But it will raise your value in his mind relative to other woman and he’ll be all the more reluctant to look for those three things (respect, loyalty, and sex) elsewhere.
5. He Wants To Make You Happy
Why do you think men work so hard to make money?Why do you think men are willing to leave their jobs and risk starting a business?
Why do you think men like buying women gifts?
Because deep down, we really just want to make you happy.
Sometimes we screw it up and forget our anniversary. But we really would prefer to remember because we know it would make you happy.
So when your husband buys you a gift, accept it, rejoice over it, thank him profusely, and use it as often as possible.
If he buys you some jewelry, wear it.
If he buys you a new smartphone, use it.
If he buys you a car, drive it.
And don’t be so quick to nag him about the things he doesn’t do right. Because then he’ll start feeling that you don’t respect (there’s that word again) the things he does do for you.
6. If You Nudge Him, He Can Be A Better Muslim
Nobody’s perfect.Perhaps your husband isn’t a Muslim scholar. Perhaps he’s not the best Muslim in the world.
You can nudge him to make him better. But you can’t force him.
Do little things to get him to improve his Islam.
- Offer to wake him up for Salaatul Fajr.
- Encourage him to make Salaah at the Masjid.
- Tell him how much nicer he’d look if he grew his beard.
But if you do this right, you’ll be getting a double reward:
The reward that comes with living with a righteous husband. And the reward in the next life for encouraging your husband to the truth.
Except for those who have believed and done righteous deeds and advised each other to truth and advised each other to patience.
Chapter 103, Verse 3
7. He Loves You, Even If He Doesn’t Always Show It
I know, this one may be kinda hard to swallow. But it’s true (usually).Men are just not that good at showing emotion (unless we’re talking sports or politics).
We don’t tell our wives “I love you” often enough.
We’re not perfect. And constantly comparing us to Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) ain’t helping.
Of course, we are supposed to emulate him (pbuh) as much as we can. And for most of us, we are doing the best we can.
But we just can’t treat you the same way he (pbuh) treated his wives. Similarly, it’s unfair for men to expect their wives to behave like Aisha (RA) and his other wives (RA) did.
Just because your husband doesn’t treat you in the way (you think) the Prophet (pbuh) treated his wives, doesn’t mean your husband doesn’t love you.
It just means he’s human.
It is very important that you understand this.
- If he’s doing his best to take care of you.
- If he doesn’t abuse you or sleep around.
- If he sincerely tries to solve your problems and helps you in the best way he can.
Now move from in front of the television and go make me a sandwich.
JUST KIDDING!
Tuesday, 17 December 2013
Syahmi nak adik..
Al kisahnya, ahad lepas, pergi rumah sepupu (Yob)..
Dia baru je dapat baby lelaki..nama Adam Harith..
maka, buat pertama kalinya, si Syahmi ni beria iya nak dukung Adam..
"nak, nak"..sambil hulur tangan nak dukung..
Lepas tuh, dia duduk, hulur tangan sambil tepuk paha..'nak ..nak..
Haha..
Dia nak dukung and letak Adam atas paha dia..
Umurnya baru je setahun 3 bulan..tapi da pandai nak dukung adik..
Dia nak berjalan pon masih kena pegang tgn ibu.. Syahmi... Syahmi..
Sabar eh sayang>.. Ada rezeki,adalaa adik awak tuh..hahhah
Ayah.. *wink..wink*..haha
Dia baru je dapat baby lelaki..nama Adam Harith..
maka, buat pertama kalinya, si Syahmi ni beria iya nak dukung Adam..
"nak, nak"..sambil hulur tangan nak dukung..
Lepas tuh, dia duduk, hulur tangan sambil tepuk paha..'nak ..nak..
Haha..
Dia nak dukung and letak Adam atas paha dia..
Umurnya baru je setahun 3 bulan..tapi da pandai nak dukung adik..
Dia nak berjalan pon masih kena pegang tgn ibu.. Syahmi... Syahmi..
Sabar eh sayang>.. Ada rezeki,adalaa adik awak tuh..hahhah
Ayah.. *wink..wink*..haha
Syahmi Fawwaz : 15 months old .. 1.3 years old
This is my dear son... Syahmi Fawwaz at the age of 15 months. Such a big boy..
He has eczema since 3months old.. and he still has it..
It's been a looooooonggg way in treating and managing eczema..
But, what do you know.. he's getting better.. =)
A day with ayah... Taking selfies, and playing with oreo trucks, drums and cars..
Penang Trip : Shangri La Rasa Sayang 3rd - 8th December 2013
So, we had this training and outing thingy in Penang just a few weeks ago and we have to bring Syahmi (it's obvious that we (me+husband) could not sleep without him.. So, we manage to secure 2 rooms so I could bring over my parent to take care of him during the day..)
Syahmi and ayah over the swimming lesson.. =p
Syahmi and ibu after the "swimming lesson"
Syahmi takes a walk in the evening
Syahmi and this "apek" topi in Feringgi night market.
Repost : 13 Mom Truths by Rachel marie Martin-
Original post from Inspiring mother :Rachel marie martin
1. Your house is not a reflection of your parenting skills. You know what I’m talking about. It’s 2:28 in the afternoon and there’s a knock on your door and your house isn’t perfect. Open the door. Welcome your friend in. Don’t apologize for whatever it looks like in your home. Show them you’re real. And remember your house isn’t a reflection of your parenting skills. It’s just a house – big, small, neat, cluttered, tidy, organized, whatever – that doesn’t matter. What matters is you – mothering, teaching, and loving your kids.
2. Sometimes you just need to read the same book over and over again. Or teach the same truth over and over again. Or deal with the same discipline issue. Or wash the dishes (ha) again. Parenting involves a great deal of repetition. And sometimes the repetition is needed. For instance? The book reading? Kids need to hear the same one again – they recognize the nuances in the story and it’s how the learn. And you? You can add that book to your books known by memory. And discipline stuff? Well it takes work. Don’t give up. Just keep going.
3. Melt downs in the store happen. Just the other day while I was at Target I observed the pinnacle of child meltdowns happen. Screaming, tantrum throwing, and the whole shebang wrapped up in what appeared to be a spitfire of a four year old. And the mom? Gritting her teeth, moving calmly, putting the massive cart away, and buckling the child in. All I could think was you go mom – keep your head high. You all know they happen, guys. When they do, don’t judge. Encourage.
4. You will be tired. Want me to explain this one? Probably not. Grab your coffee or chai tea or energy drink or green drink or whatever you need and rock on mom. You can do this.
5. Some days will be tedious. Other days normal. Other days challenging. Other days amazing. Motherhood is like a rollercoaster rides of days. And often those feelings can happen in the midst of the normal day. You may start out feeling like you’re the queen of motherhood only to have the rug pulled out from underneath you at 8:34 am and you’re ready to call in back up. Just like your house doesn’t define you your days don’t define. It’s the constant movement that matters. And loving your kids.
6. Kids get sick. This. Especially for you new moms out there. Our kids get sick. It just happens and when it does we just deal with it. I’m still telling you though – it’s an art to deal with a vomiting no aim two year old. Or to stay up all night with one with an ear ache. Or to sit in a doctor’s office and fight for diagnosis. Kids get sick. Not the fun part of parenting.
7. Less things equals less stress. The more you have the more you have to manage. The busier you are the more you will feel like you are racing around running on empty. Clearing out the clutter is one of the best things to do – constantly get rid of stuff. And it teaches our kids to not get sucked into the more is better conundrum of life.
8. You’ll make mistakes. Like me. I published this post originally without a number eight (that’s what I get for not checking the order). But you know what? Mistakes happen. They don’t define us. We can learn from them, move on, and work to do better next time. Perfection doesn’t happen. Real does. 
9. Laundry will never be done. Yeah. It will be on the list, but as we all know the 18 seconds of not having a piece of dirty clothes in the laundry basket is short lived. Put laundry on the breathing list – the things to do that are just a normal needed part of life. And celebrate those 18 seconds when the laundry is done. That’s good too.
10. Get down on their level. Look them in the eye when they talk to you. Learn to love what they love. It’s easy in this fast pace tweet it instagram it facebook it racing world to lose the art of looking and communicating with those we love directly. Intentionally cultivate moments in your life where the social noise is quiet so that you and your kids can have space within the busy.
11. Sippy cups leak. Toys break. Those things don’t matter. Those things in life aren’t what you’re going to remember at the end of your days. I think I remember a couple of my toys from childhood – my Mr. Owl Math Fact Calculator, a Barbie that had on a glitzy gold outfit, a lego set, and a keyboard. You know what I do remember? Going to the lake and fishing with my parents. Seeing the Ice Palace on a cold Minnesota winter morning. Playing Skipbo with my family. Riding bikes. Racing in the backyard. Simple little things.
12. Don’t worry about savoring every single moment. Give yourself grace, really. Going back to the kids being sick point – there are simply times in life where the little moments aren’t really the best. Don’t stress about that. Instead be grateful for the moments tucked within the normal. So often we don’t realy expect them – they’re the you’re the best mom moments after you cut the pbj into triangles and get them a glass of milk. Moments matter, but not all moments need to be savored. Make it a habit to record the good so that you can remember.
13. There is no supermom. There is only the real mom. And the real mom is brace, tenacious, funny, crazy, excited, tired, giving, crying, hoping, loving, challenging, working, worn out, loving life, loving those kids, and amazing. Real moms are amazing. Normal moms are amazing. You, the mom who loves and gives and cares for her kids, are fabulous simply because you are mom. Remember, just like I’m writing about in my book – being a mom is enough.
Thirteen Mom Truths. What would you add?
1. Your house is not a reflection of your parenting skills. You know what I’m talking about. It’s 2:28 in the afternoon and there’s a knock on your door and your house isn’t perfect. Open the door. Welcome your friend in. Don’t apologize for whatever it looks like in your home. Show them you’re real. And remember your house isn’t a reflection of your parenting skills. It’s just a house – big, small, neat, cluttered, tidy, organized, whatever – that doesn’t matter. What matters is you – mothering, teaching, and loving your kids.
2. Sometimes you just need to read the same book over and over again. Or teach the same truth over and over again. Or deal with the same discipline issue. Or wash the dishes (ha) again. Parenting involves a great deal of repetition. And sometimes the repetition is needed. For instance? The book reading? Kids need to hear the same one again – they recognize the nuances in the story and it’s how the learn. And you? You can add that book to your books known by memory. And discipline stuff? Well it takes work. Don’t give up. Just keep going.
3. Melt downs in the store happen. Just the other day while I was at Target I observed the pinnacle of child meltdowns happen. Screaming, tantrum throwing, and the whole shebang wrapped up in what appeared to be a spitfire of a four year old. And the mom? Gritting her teeth, moving calmly, putting the massive cart away, and buckling the child in. All I could think was you go mom – keep your head high. You all know they happen, guys. When they do, don’t judge. Encourage.
5. Some days will be tedious. Other days normal. Other days challenging. Other days amazing. Motherhood is like a rollercoaster rides of days. And often those feelings can happen in the midst of the normal day. You may start out feeling like you’re the queen of motherhood only to have the rug pulled out from underneath you at 8:34 am and you’re ready to call in back up. Just like your house doesn’t define you your days don’t define. It’s the constant movement that matters. And loving your kids.
6. Kids get sick. This. Especially for you new moms out there. Our kids get sick. It just happens and when it does we just deal with it. I’m still telling you though – it’s an art to deal with a vomiting no aim two year old. Or to stay up all night with one with an ear ache. Or to sit in a doctor’s office and fight for diagnosis. Kids get sick. Not the fun part of parenting.
7. Less things equals less stress. The more you have the more you have to manage. The busier you are the more you will feel like you are racing around running on empty. Clearing out the clutter is one of the best things to do – constantly get rid of stuff. And it teaches our kids to not get sucked into the more is better conundrum of life.
9. Laundry will never be done. Yeah. It will be on the list, but as we all know the 18 seconds of not having a piece of dirty clothes in the laundry basket is short lived. Put laundry on the breathing list – the things to do that are just a normal needed part of life. And celebrate those 18 seconds when the laundry is done. That’s good too.
10. Get down on their level. Look them in the eye when they talk to you. Learn to love what they love. It’s easy in this fast pace tweet it instagram it facebook it racing world to lose the art of looking and communicating with those we love directly. Intentionally cultivate moments in your life where the social noise is quiet so that you and your kids can have space within the busy.
11. Sippy cups leak. Toys break. Those things don’t matter. Those things in life aren’t what you’re going to remember at the end of your days. I think I remember a couple of my toys from childhood – my Mr. Owl Math Fact Calculator, a Barbie that had on a glitzy gold outfit, a lego set, and a keyboard. You know what I do remember? Going to the lake and fishing with my parents. Seeing the Ice Palace on a cold Minnesota winter morning. Playing Skipbo with my family. Riding bikes. Racing in the backyard. Simple little things.
13. There is no supermom. There is only the real mom. And the real mom is brace, tenacious, funny, crazy, excited, tired, giving, crying, hoping, loving, challenging, working, worn out, loving life, loving those kids, and amazing. Real moms are amazing. Normal moms are amazing. You, the mom who loves and gives and cares for her kids, are fabulous simply because you are mom. Remember, just like I’m writing about in my book – being a mom is enough.
Thirteen Mom Truths. What would you add?
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“I am writing this in my hallway at the top of the stairs because my two little boys won’t stay in their room and go to bed unless I sit up here at the doorway and utter words like go to bed and stay in bed now – I mean it and no more water and you will lose media time if you get out of your bed again until they both decide to give in, slip under their covers and go to sleep.
That’s the truth.
I’ve tried charts. Bedtime routines. Stickers. Time outs. All of it. And I’ve resorted to working at the top of the stairs for an hour each night and muttering those phrases. I’ve actually gotten quite used to emailing, tweeting, facebooking, and writing with my back against the door to my room and my eyes constantly looking in their room to see if they’re asleep.
(they’re not right now… in case you were wondering.)”
“Sometimes my kids play too much media.I skip words, okay paragraphs, in long books at bedtime.
I don’t fold all the little boys clothes because they just dump them out anyway.
My sock basket is rarely ever folded.
I don’t like doing dishes.
My living room right now (which I can see because I am sitting at the top of the stairs) has throw pillows on the floor, papers on the couch, a lamp shade that’s crooked, shoes scattered by the door, and a couple empty boxes waiting for the toys to be dumped back in.
My pinterest board however, has pictures of perfectly organized living rooms.
I love Starbucks and will drive there sometimes with the kids in the back and then I will take the long way home.
I get impatient with my kids.
And I’m normal.
My kids? Well, they’re normal. Or as normal as kids who want every single thing fair are ever going to be.
Motherhood isn’t based on perfection. It’s not based on having gluten free (which we must have in my world) or whole wheat macaroni with organic apples and socks that are matched and never getting impatient and a perfectly picked up living room that looks like a pinterest board.
Motherhood is simply real.
Real with real moms who lose their patience, who want to throw in the towel, who have kids (like my Samuel who is now in the hallway next to me telling me he doesn’t want to go to bed now) who don’t stay in bed. It’s full of moms who have to work who’d rather stay home. Or moms who stay home who’d rather work. Or moms who are simply tired with the every day same routine.
It’s full of real moms who take their kids to the apple orchard and the zoo and the coffee shop and the grocery store and the doctor and to school and all of that normal stuff. It’s full of moms who feel like all they do is the laundry again and again and if they see clean clothes stuffed in the hamper again they threaten to take them away and sell them (or maybe that’s just me). It’s full of moms who are happy, joyful, sad, overwhelmed, and well, let’s face it real.
That’s the being enough mom.
That’s my confession. It’s not that I don’t want to be better. I think at heart we wake up each day and want each day to be better than the next. That’s why I celebrate pulling up the boot straps and trying again and again and giving yourself grace. (Don’t forget grace. Ever.) Motherhood has moments of extreme patience, extreme trying, and really learning to not compare.
Motherhood isn’t based on external markers of perfection.
Motherhood is an act of learning. Every single day. It’s being okay with the fact that maybe you like the convenience of that boxed macaroni and cheese. You know why? It’s because it’s not based on what other moms are doing – it’s based on you – on you knowing your family, knowing what is best for your family, and being brave and confident in what you’re doing.
Motherhood, and in fact life, is often this journey of waking up and discovering self.
That’s the truth.
So I tell you, you right now, you the mother in whatever stage of motherhood you may find yourself that you are doing just fine. You are doing fine if your kids don’t stay in bed, you hate potty training (does anyone like that one?), your kids have melt downs in the store, you get exasperated, you sneak the last bit of ice cream for yourself, and well, you’re just you. Just keep trying, keep doing your best, and keep growing more and more confident in your ability to mother.
You know what your kids need? Of course you do. They don’t need perfect.
They need you.
You, the imperfect wonderfully perfect for your kids, mother.
That’s my mom confession today.
Oh yes, and we’re having hot dogs and peaches and macaroni and cheese for lunch.”
I’ve tried charts. Bedtime routines. Stickers. Time outs. All of it. And I’ve resorted to working at the top of the stairs for an hour each night and muttering those phrases. I’ve actually gotten quite used to emailing, tweeting, facebooking, and writing with my back against the door to my room and my eyes constantly looking in their room to see if they’re asleep.
(they’re not right now… in case you were wondering.)”
My life isn’t all together. I’ve got my share, well more than my share, of ups and downs, fails and do-overs, highs and lows, and sitting at the top of the stair moments because I can’t seem to think of something better to do.
I make boxed macaroni and cheese for lunch with the little powdered cheese.
I don’t fold all the little boys clothes because they just dump them out anyway.
My sock basket is rarely ever folded.
I don’t like doing dishes.
My living room right now (which I can see because I am sitting at the top of the stairs) has throw pillows on the floor, papers on the couch, a lamp shade that’s crooked, shoes scattered by the door, and a couple empty boxes waiting for the toys to be dumped back in.
My pinterest board however, has pictures of perfectly organized living rooms.
I love Starbucks and will drive there sometimes with the kids in the back and then I will take the long way home.
I get impatient with my kids.
And I’m normal.
My kids? Well, they’re normal. Or as normal as kids who want every single thing fair are ever going to be.
Motherhood isn’t based on perfection. It’s not based on having gluten free (which we must have in my world) or whole wheat macaroni with organic apples and socks that are matched and never getting impatient and a perfectly picked up living room that looks like a pinterest board.
Motherhood is simply real.
Real with real moms who lose their patience, who want to throw in the towel, who have kids (like my Samuel who is now in the hallway next to me telling me he doesn’t want to go to bed now) who don’t stay in bed. It’s full of moms who have to work who’d rather stay home. Or moms who stay home who’d rather work. Or moms who are simply tired with the every day same routine.
It’s full of real moms who take their kids to the apple orchard and the zoo and the coffee shop and the grocery store and the doctor and to school and all of that normal stuff. It’s full of moms who feel like all they do is the laundry again and again and if they see clean clothes stuffed in the hamper again they threaten to take them away and sell them (or maybe that’s just me). It’s full of moms who are happy, joyful, sad, overwhelmed, and well, let’s face it real.
That’s the being enough mom.
That’s my confession. It’s not that I don’t want to be better. I think at heart we wake up each day and want each day to be better than the next. That’s why I celebrate pulling up the boot straps and trying again and again and giving yourself grace. (Don’t forget grace. Ever.) Motherhood has moments of extreme patience, extreme trying, and really learning to not compare.
Motherhood isn’t based on external markers of perfection.
Motherhood is an act of learning. Every single day. It’s being okay with the fact that maybe you like the convenience of that boxed macaroni and cheese. You know why? It’s because it’s not based on what other moms are doing – it’s based on you – on you knowing your family, knowing what is best for your family, and being brave and confident in what you’re doing.
Motherhood, and in fact life, is often this journey of waking up and discovering self.
That’s the truth.
So I tell you, you right now, you the mother in whatever stage of motherhood you may find yourself that you are doing just fine. You are doing fine if your kids don’t stay in bed, you hate potty training (does anyone like that one?), your kids have melt downs in the store, you get exasperated, you sneak the last bit of ice cream for yourself, and well, you’re just you. Just keep trying, keep doing your best, and keep growing more and more confident in your ability to mother.
You know what your kids need? Of course you do. They don’t need perfect.
They need you.
You, the imperfect wonderfully perfect for your kids, mother.
That’s my mom confession today.
Oh yes, and we’re having hot dogs and peaches and macaroni and cheese for lunch.”
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